Tuesday, 5 November 2013
MEGAN SAINSBURY MORE LIES AND BULLYING:
This is Shilpi Saurabh Kumar from FCI. I know next it is my turn for abuse from Megan Sainsbury the bully of surrogacy community. Mr Saurabh Kumar is education is from DPS one of the best schools in New Delhi and even of he doesn't speak English he understands and reads it perfectly and writes well. He is working with Dr Shivani from before Megan joined Dr Shivani, she has no idea how brick by brick they have raised this organization with all set up equipments staff from which she earned around 600,000 dollars plus cost of two surrogacies and costs in Delhi. Megan trying to say that FCI do not know about finances or IP requests or surrogate payments is just nonsense. I can recall those days when she was in India She never wanted her surrogate mothers to be very attached with her or babies. Bob was so uncomfortable in front of the surrogates. Suddenly what made her to behave like this? I am surprised! By writing fake statements what she wants to prove?
she was always telling that Ips should not get too attached and respect surrogate mothers decision and privacy. She always said that some IPs who say like that do it to make themselves feel good or because they feel judement by others.
Any client who wants to share pictures,cards, gifts, finances with their surrogates, they send it to SCI and SCI forward it to FCI and we share it with surrogates. That is the whole procedure. Surrogates don’t have any problem in this as by doing this they can maintain their privacy and confidentiality and at the same time they can know well being of babies. After completing their responsibility being surrogate they are free to live their life as per their choice and they can decide whether they are interested to be in contact with IP or not. After surrogacy surrogate has right to accept or deny. Most of the IPS could be interested to contact their surrogate mothers but all may not be. FCI have same attachment with all surrogate mothers. All are special and important and their emotions too
We have always been honest with our intended parents. We provide correct information which gets verified during the Govt. verification and in interview too, that’s why babies get their visa. We believe in transparent communication. We have an number of IPs can contact to their surrogates through us and if they come India we arrange face to face meeting as per IP request and surrogate’s wish. We do not encourage you Megan to mention my surrogate’s name here in your personal abusive public talks. You are into this profession since so many years how could you forget that. What if surrogate object? Will you be answerable?
For your information after C section its common for all ladies to be on rest for certain time of period. She cannot start going here and there within day or two after delivery. Her care is FCI responsibility. AS PER YOU MEGAN If surrogate go back her village in all cases after 1-2 days after delivery then how she can sign document related to paper work and how some appears in embassy or FFRO interview. Does it make sense?
Every new parents love to click their pictures with their kids. Megan did the same and nothing is wrong in this. Instead of taking it as emotional thing why she is taking it as commercial stuff.
FCI still on its words that during pregnancy all surrogate lives in surrogate apartments and yes, we 180 apartment approx. But after surrogacy our surrogates are not bound to live at the same address for lifelong. Kim Hendrix also big liar, she introduce herself to all of us as SCI client manager when in Delhi. Same trip she meet other doctors to set up business but not tell us. Lies to Poonam also at time of exit visa. Meeting with other clinic in daytime and dinner with SCI. Lies to clients, US Embassy at baby pick up to get testimonials. So many lies. Megan has big fight with K Hendrix then Megan is suddenly friends with her and they working same clinics now. Kim Hendrix talks about transparency and herself is most non transparent and when she is exposed her husband sending legal threats, lawyer in India lawyer in USA.
There is no comparison between GoodKimH. and Megan. . GoodKimH. is a lady with great patience. GoodKimH comes India almost every year and sometimes earlier, to meet with her surrogate mother. If she doesn’t get her surrogate mothers available in town then she waits for them. Sometimes she waits for a week or so. She loves to spend her full day with her surrogates and kids. She does Photo shoot to make memories for those special moments, which she spent with them. love and care is unconditional for her surrogates and for their families too. This is called real bonding. The there is a person like Megan Sainsbury, She abuses FCI on a very festive occasion if they cannot bring surrogate for Megan, which surrogate mother will leave family on festive time?As per Megan needs and demand her surrogate should act. Megan has no patience. Megan forgets what she has been telling IPs for so many years. Megan is not even equal to the dust beneath the feet of GoodKimH.
See how Megan sells her new company-- very easy now that Megan has beautiful babies and so much money from India and has no problems with birth certificate.
I have been to Mumbai twice and Delhi four times in the past 4 years - is a cess pit compared to Bangkok.
I never thought I would say this, but if I had my time again, and if Thailand would put my name on the baby's birth certificate, I would go to Thailand --
I never thought I would say this, but if I had my time again, and if Thailand would put my name on the baby's birth certificate, I would go to Thailand --
You are not going to encounter.. ie beggars with small babies in their arms knocking at your window while making "feed my baby" signs at you.
I want to remind Megan how she sent E mail saying megan cannot afford spending money going to Surrogacy Australia conference because - megan has to feed her family and pay mortgage. She needs the money for her kids. Megan has told others also about her need for money for her family.
So surrogate agent Megan will do all this for money. All who read her web will understand.
16 comments:
In addition, I think Aussies' gov needs surro mom's consent for passport renewals, if you can't locate the surro mom, does this mean you can't renew the passports for your little ones?
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karen
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Location: Ireland
PostSubject: Re: *WARNING ON SHIVANI SACHDEV-GOUR AT SCI HEALTHCARE* Fri Nov 26, 2010 8:25 am
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I would give my left arm to have gone through any experience with Shivani because at the end of the day - SHIVANI gave you and others your baby!!!!!!! THAT IS THE ISSUE!!!!!
And equally there have been many who did get pregnant and as with every surrogacy clinic there is good and bad. However, it is up to each of us to look at the facts and go with our own beliefs. Many of us have looked at other clinics who are successful but there have been couples who did not have success and became very anti those clinics. That seems to be the way it goes with surrogacy. If all goes well they are the best clinic in the world, however if something goes awry then there are problems with that clinic, etc....
When I first began speaking with you you had issues with cleanliness, etc at Dr Patel's. Others had issues with SI that is why others were looking for alternatives to those clinics. Basically, what I am saying is that all people need to read EVERYONE's story and then decide on their own who is the best clinic for them to work with.
You look at Amani as Shivani's henchwoman- I however have found her very helpful and supportive. You bash Amani as having an incentive. However, You also receive a consulting fee for sending patients to certain clinics as does Crystal---that is your decision and also your incentive.
I have spoke to quite a few people whom are home with their babies safe and sound and cannot thank Shivani enough for what she has done for them. Dolly Rocker the main thing is do not take my opinion or her opinion as gospel ---look at all the clinics out there and all the blogs out there and decide from there. Contact people and see what their experiences are and then make a decision.
hope your little one is doing well - you are one of the lucky ones whose dream came to fruition. The rest of us are still waiting.
Best wishes to you Dolly Rocker and others looking into this process.
karen
It's Meegan from Tassie, and we have 2 perfect SCI babies to which you helped plan and assisted along the way. Meg, all the issues you have discovered, we knew about anyway. Or at the very least, assumed. To be honest, it was not feasible to think that Dr Shivani could afford to house our surrogate mothers in a 'hostel' with a hundred other surrogate mothers. Nor was it to take as fact that just about everyone's surrogate mother had been diagnosed with 'gestational diabetes' which required insulin that was 10 times more expensive than it is here in Australia!
Nor was it to have to pay for 'post c-section complications' when the day that apparently happened we were with our surrogate mother at the SCI office.
I am pleased that you have discovered these things and have confirmed what probably a lot of people already thought.
The thing is, would we have still gone ahead had we known these things prior to starting our journey with SCI? Yes. We were desperate to have a family and this appeared to be our only option. SCI know we are all vulnerable and desperate and perhaps they use this to their advantage. While this seems terrible by western standards, we also need to remember that we are engaging a clinic in a 3rd world country, that operates very differently to our own countries.
I would love to be able to stay in contact with our surrogate mothers, but we were told at the beginning that this is not possible. Whether this is fair or not, it is not up to us. It does not mean that we do not think of them all the time.
The thing I tell IP's if they ever ask - is to try and enjoy the journey for what it is. Don't get caught up in the politics of it all and don't make it about the money. Children are priceless. Have fun in the beautiful country that India is, try and focus on the positive and make it a memorable experience. And then if you are lucky enough to have a baby at the end of it like we were - twice - you will have a wonderful story to tell them. I will hold India in my heart forever - and no amount of 'unforeseen expenses' can take that away from me.
Love Meegan